Wednesday, 25 July 2007
Paediatrician, no-NGT review
Even though he has lost a small amount of weight, his consumption hasn't been that bad. This mixed with Raphael seeming to be very active over the last fortnight has lead our paediatrician to say that she is pleasantly surprised that he has done so well so far and is happy for us to continue the trial.
We are also planning to start to add more energy rich solids/purée to his diet in an attempt to start to introduce more variety.
Monday, 16 July 2007
Weight gain, development and another cold (10.22kg)

On the up side, while we were at our first aid course at early learning today Raphael "cruised" by himself without anyone's hand to hold onto. He did need some encouragement from his mean dad who kept on taking his toys away from him and putting them out of his reach; forcing him to cruise to the toys.
While he has been sleeping, his breathing has been poor over the last day and a half. He seems to be very congested. At the moment his saturations are only 90% and we are waiting for the home care nurse to arrive tonight to have a look at him and possible raise his CPAP to a higher level.
Monday, 9 July 2007
Trialling without NGT (10.3kg)

Tuesday, 12 June 2007
Higher temperature
He was fine all last night and the only equipment alarm that went off was the NGT pump which just an easily fixed kink in the tube that stopping the flow at one point.
Without this fabulous service and care from the home care team we would probably have had to admit Raphael to hospital last night so I am very grateful to the people that make this service possible.
Tuesday, 29 May 2007
Help from a home care nurse
- Inserting a new NGT for Raphael.
- Going through resuscitation with us again on an infant dummy; better than the adolescent one that we practised on before.
- Explaining to us how best to clean the CPAP equipment
- Talking about how best to manage Dr appointments while being an inpatient
- Talking about how to deal with being an outpatient and having appointments close together.
- Offering to help consolidate appointments to be closer together rather than have them spread over an awkward amount of time
Another tube out
I pulled it out the rest of the way (rather than risk reinserting it) as I know we have a home care nurse coming tonight who can put a new one in.
Saturday, 26 May 2007
Another new way to extract an NGT
I was in the middle of taking a few opportunistic photos of my family on a relaxing Saturday morning when Raphael started to cough. After three decent goes at coughing he started to turn the tell tale red of pending up-chuck.

Thursday, 10 May 2007
Still in hospital
The ENT registrar also visited to ask about the mysterious neck which had been ordered for Raphael. Like us, they seem to be unsure why this has been ordered. I actually think that there was a miscommunication somewhere and that it was supposed to be ordered for our other son Zachariah. He also commented that the CT scan showed some evidence of congenital cholesteatoma but he probably does not have this. It will continue be monitored and we will talk more about this at the next ENT consultation.
We attempted to connect for his afternoon sleep but he would not tolerate it again. It seems at though we are not going to have any success with his afternoon sleeps. I was exhausted and so I went home to sleep and while I was out I missed our paediatrician who came around to see us (rats).


Saturday, 5 May 2007
Next day in hospital

He is still not eating much and still coughing a bit but it was good to see that his temperature stayed normal all afternoon.
Friday, 6 April 2007
Yet another NGT

One of his expulsions pushed out part of the tube. In the heat of the moment I was in two minds as to whether it was still in far enough for me to push it back in again. My indecision gave him the chance to reach up and he tugged it out further. That became the deciding factor and I pulled the rest of the tube out.
If he would have managed to hold onto the tube for just two more weeks then he might not have had to have another one fitted. We have tentatively got a surgery date to have a G-tube fitted (along with CT scan, grommets, and ABR) in two weeks time - more on that later, as we are not exactly sure what is going on with that yet.
Tuesday, 3 April 2007
Another dodgy plug on the NGT


My wife has discovered that to perform a temporary fix we just need to snip of a plug from an old NGT and plug up the hole with it. And then do a load of washing.
The first photo shows the unplugged tube and the extra piece that we used from a previous tube. The second photo shows the extra piece plugged in, making the normal yellow plug redundant.
You might also be able to see dust stuck to the outside of the tube. This is just because it gets sticky-tape residue on it from where we tape the tube to his clothes during the day.
Tuesday, 13 March 2007
Grand up-chuck

We were a bit rushed between appointments and when we got home I fed him a pot of custard too soon after he guzzled down all that hot milk when we were trying to get him to sleep for the ABR. Poor lad, he doesn't know when to stop when it comes to eating solids after he has had milk. You'd have thought that I would have learnt though!
So now I have two more chuck cloths soaking in a bucket of water. If you have been to our house and wondered what all
Thursday, 8 March 2007
Woosh, there goes another NGT

The rostered head nurse greeted me kindly at the paediatric ward. She is always good fun and she is excellent at placing the tubes. She looked at my detubed son and said, "he is easy to place the tubes in isn't he".
So I looked at her quizzically and said "you mean apart from the aspiration, blockages and vomiting that usually happens with it don't you?". She hadn't had a problem doing him in the past so that came as a bit of a surprise to her. I praised her past skill in tubing him and so she did his tube again. This time and it went pretty smoothly, as smoothly as it can go anyway.
Tuesday, 27 February 2007
The woes of last night
Raphael coughed incessantly; Annie was very tired and had to work today so she abandoned me early in the night to look after him and went to sleep in the living room.
He can make the most horrific coughing sounds. They can sound like he is vomiting (complete with squelching fluid sounds) which makes it really hard to know whether I need to get up or not. Of course both Annie and I usually both wake up when he makes this particular sound but we both pretend to sleep to see if the other is going to deal with the situation. I usually win at this pretending to sleep game but of course tonight Annie wasn't there so I had to deal with it.
At one stage I thought I heard him vomit so I dragged my "pretending to sleep" body out of the bed to check on him only to find that he was "crossing the river" (Crossing the river is a Chinese saying that we use to describe a flow of snot that has passed the mouth). But he wasn't just crossing the river, he was crossing a waterfall, a big waterfall, a waterfall of massive ectoplasmic proportions that would have sent shivers down the spine of any self respecting ghost buster. So after mopping him with a box of tissues, I went back to sleep. Well, I went back to pretending to sleep anyway - because of course this did not stop him from coughing for the rest of the night.

The tubes that are in him are called long term NGTs. They are supposed to last a month before needing to be replaced. The longest he has kept one in for was three weeks, but then he detubed himself three times in the following week to make up for it.
Thursday, 22 February 2007
Half detubing
Monday, 19 February 2007
Another detubing


Oh well I suppose We'll have to go into the hospital today to have it reinserted.
Friday, 16 February 2007
Compiled the blog history up to now
I know that I missed detailing several paediatrician appointments, at least one ENT appointment and I have barely mentioned the speech pathologist and dietician appointments but there were many in this time as well. I haven't even touched on the number of times that we have been to the hospital to reinsert his NGT after he has extracted it
On average up till now we have had about two appointments per week. Sometimes four sometimes only one. I can't remember the last time that we had a week without an appointment of some kind for Raphael.
Friday, 8 December 2006
Hospitalisation for Nasogastric tube (NGT) insertion

Tuesday, 28 November 2006
Another Kind of Barium swallow attempt #2
This time it went well. Tube in, down to x-ray, short wait, the correct radiologist was there (phew) and the barium swallow was done with the appropriate x-rays. The result was even good news (not something that we were used to getting). There was no communication found between the oesophagus and the trachea.
Thursday, 16 November 2006
Another Kind of Barium swallow
We went into a treatment room and wrapped Raphael up in a blanket to immobilise his hands and then the procedure began. She measured the length of tube that she would need, lubricated the end of it and then slid it up his nose and slowly down the back of his throat. Of course he wasn’t very keen on this and thrashed his head from side to side (oops, I was supposed to be holding his head firmly to stop that). The poor boy gagged and choked and coughed and of course this made it all the more harder for the nurse to get the tube inserted. Finally it was over and the tube was tested to make sure it was in his stomach by sucking some bile out and testing it on some litmus paper.
Finally when we got to x-ray a puzzled radiologist asked us if we knew why he was asked to perform this procedure as the order from the paediatrician specified a particular radiologist was to perform the x-rays. He was very nice and very apologetic of the obvious administrative error that had occurred. After a phone call to our paediatrician, he confirmed that it would not be worth him performing the test. He informed us that his specialities were livers, kidneys, breasts, and penises and if we ever needed x-rays for these then he would be the man to see but the last paediatric barium swallow that he did was a long time ago and he would not be confident that he would be the best person to perform the procedure on Raphael. We agreed and were very civil about the whole thing, but afterwards Annie and I had a good rant to each other about the time that I had to take off work and the pain my boy had to suffer for no reason.